Guilt is a complicated emotion that can start to manifest as early as childhood. Guilt is sometimes instilled in children by adults subconsciously, unaware of how their behaviors may impact those around them. Some adults use guilt as a powerful tool to try to control their children’s behavior, but it can have repercussions. It can be important to understand more about guilt, what you may unconsciously do to contribute to it, and what you can consciously do to stop it from seriously affecting your child.

Living with Guilt

Even when you or other family members do not consciously intend for your child to feel guilt, they can still be weighed down by this negative emotion. When feelings of guilt become overwhelming or unhealthy they can stop a child from being confident, happy, and productive. This can even linger into adulthood.

Guilt can impact your child’s self-esteem, which may contribute to feelings of insecurity and indecisiveness. This may lead to self-criticism, self-consciousness, distrust, etc. Excessive guilt can impact the way your child feels, behaves and interacts with others.

Liberating Your Child from Unnecessary Guilt

If your child is experiencing excessive guilt, you may not know what to do to help them. Counseling can be helpful in exploring the source of unhealthy guilt and finding more effective ways to cope with these feelings. 

CCS in Fuquay-Varina contracts with licensed therapists and counselors that know how to treat guilt. Don’t stay stuck. Call CCS today to schedule your child’s first appointment. Online counseling and in person sessions are available!

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