Carolina Counseling Services -Mastering the Art of Couples Communication/Resolution to Conflict
How Do I Set Up my FIRST Appointment?
- Call: (919) 762-3185 (Fastest way to schedule)
- Text: ((910) 308-3291 (Reply will be via phone)
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- Call or Text for your New Patient Appointment Anytime!
- Appointment scheduling for NEW clients: Mon-Fri 8:30am-5:15pm
- New client appts may be scheduled when therapists have openings, which may include daytime, evenings and weekends.
- Evening and Saturday Appointments Available. Call Now!
- Established/Standing Appointments are made directly with your therapist!
- Referrals: MOST beneficiaries do NOT need a Referral!
Conflict can enter even the very best marriages. Such disagreements can be caused by multiple reasons, ranging from financial management to raising kids. Nothing is inherently bad for conflicts to occasionally arise as it is completely a normal part of any relationship. After all, it can’t be expected for two people with different attitudes, principles, etc. trying to work out a life together to agree on everything all the time.
When Conflict Runs Unhealthy
How you handle marital conflict is another story. If you perceive conflict as dangerous and something to fear, it can leave you traumatized and powerless over your own feelings. It’s tough to handle the problems at hand because you tend to either shut down or explode in anger. If you view conflict as demoralizing, you’re unlikely to compromise because you fail to value the other person’s side. When conflict makes you feel resentful, strong emotions like hurt, disappointment, rejection, and shame can bring the present-day disagreement either to an unresolved or a bad ending.
If you’re out of touch with your own feelings, you tend to handle conflicts in an unhealthy manner. You’re so stressed that you’re unable to process your other emotions, making you blind even to your own needs. When you fail to understand your own needs, you can’t effectively communicate with your partner and stay in touch with the real cause of the conflict. At this point, conflict can be so blown out of proportion that it can cause irreparable rift, hatred, and perhaps even a break in your relationship bond.
Managing Differences the Healthy Way
You’re just like any couple with disagreements and differences from time to time. Marriage would be boring if you don’t occasionally disagree with the person you love the most. In fact, psychologists say that conflict is actually good for a marriage because it becomes an opportunity to get to the bottom of things. Unfortunately resolving conflicts can be tricky. Some couples are lucky to have the skills to effectively communicate and resolve conflicts on their own. Others need the help from a third party to provide objective intervention and assistance in the couple learning to manage differences in fair and healthy way.
The Art of Resolving Conflict
If marital conflict has become too overwhelming and your attempts to achieve reconciliation prove futile, help from an expert will be certainly beneficial to your relationship. Carolina Counseling Services Fuquay-Varina contracted therapists will be glad to work with you using the best style or therapy approach right for you and your spouse. Soon enough you’ll be mastering the art of conflict resolution without hurting each other’s feelings. Make your call to Carolina Counseling Services Fuquay-Varina now to request an appointment. It’s a positive sign you want to remain in a permanent and happy union. Allow us to help you achieve your goal.
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Confidential / Private Sessions
Carolina Counseling Services contracts with Licensed professional counselors/therapists/psychologists that provide a friendly, relaxed atmosphere. Carolina Counseling Services Fuquay-Varina contracts with friendly, caring therapists who assist adult individuals, couples, families, and children with resolving issues and getting back to enjoying their lives. Whether you are non-military or military, it will always been a pleasure to work with you. CCS and the independently contracted therapists are able and happy to assist active duty dependents and retired military and their families.
Serving Areas: Carolina Counseling Services
Counties: Wake County NC
Cities: Fuquay-Varina NC, Holly Springs NC, Angier NC, Duncan NC, Chalybeate Springs NC, Feltonville NC, Garner NC, Kennebec NC, Willow Springs NC, Cokesbury NC, Holland NC, Wilbon NC